Everything we do in our lives are always better off if we have patterns. Patterns give us the road map necessary to get to where we want to go. Just like anything else we do in live, the family life is the same--there should be patterns. These patterns actually needs to be set up before starting a family. For example, couples need to talk about their way of live before the wedding day. The wedding itself and the way it is arranged can say a lot about the family life of a couple. The wedding should be a celebration of love and not the time to show off by having everything beautiful and perfect. It should be the time to celebrate the love between the couple and invite the other relatives and/or the community to support them.
Patterns that are established before or early during a marriage will last a lifetime and even forever, so that is why we need to develop good patterns and habits early on. Some of the things that needs to be developed early on deals with communication' the way people will talk about situations in the family. Also, money management--who will and how to manage money--is very important to the happiness of the family. Shopping, education, and the how to raise children. Couples also need to prepare for when children come into the family.
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