Fidelity!!!

    Fidelity is to be faithful to someone or something. It is full commitment, respect, and trust to that one person or thing. Infidelity, on the other hand, is to be unfaithful in any way with someone or something other then the person or thing you are supposed to cling to. We are to leave mother and father and cleave unto our none else but husbands and wives. Most people think of physical intimacy when infidelity comes to mind. But that is not the only way infidelity can happen. Another way is when people are unfaithful emotionally. When a husband or wife start confiding on a friend or someone else instead of the spouse, emotional infidelity takes place. It may seem so simple and innocent at first, but can quickly lead to physical intimacy and marital problems. When we share intimate things with people, we tend to draw closer to them. That is why confiding in someone else other than your spouse is a bad idea. The couple will be drawn apart and that can lead to problems. That is why our spouses should be the only we really should share intimate things with. When we are married--or even during engagement--we must change who we talk to and what we share with others. It is not that you don't care about your friends anymore but you're trying to build a strong relationship with your spouse now.